WHAT HURT’S CAN BE HEALED . . .
All that hurts you, can be forgived. In fact I might go as far to say that if we are ready to forgive immediately we’re might be repressing our pain; when we are unable to forgive after long period of times we slip into “Resentment”.
Forgiveness doesn’t mean that you don’t feel anger. Sometimes we can not deal with our own pain, so we act unconsciously and in turn, hurt those we care about. . . To have better results, we have to choose to let someone go, because their presence in our lives no longer serves us. Try to release people throughout your life because you are moving down to different paths. No matter how many times people around you say ” We understand ” but they don’t.
You may even resent them for trying, we may share similar experiences, but every hurt … “every single hurt is personal”. . . Never compare your situations with others because you are not wellawared about their life and their experiences.
It’s very very important to take a break from your pain and get engage in healthy compartmentalization. Every one find relief in different ways.. Some may find it in creative activities ( . .I do ) such as writing, reading, music, art or movies.; Others may find in moving like dance, long walks, long drives! Choose a task allows you to escape from one to another reality; Even if it is only for few moments, it doesn’t matter.. my friend.
What comes in our ways to peace and understanding?
OUR EGOS !
This ego thing stop us even if we desire to live peaceful life, it will kill your talent, your happiness, your career.. too much ego can ruin your life. If you listen to the ego, there will always be someone doing better than you. no matter what you gain, the ego will not let you rest.. Try to adapt to different people and situations to feel worthy and accepted. It takes a lot of personal work to discover who you are and not to be driven by temptations of the ego. The truth is that in the process of our personal developmental journey and life challenges we are bound to get hurt.
Learning to let go of your egos is very easy in theory, however can be very difficult to execute in the moment. But it’s not impossible. When i think about my times I’ve been frustrated I always recognize a single thought that ,
“Drop your ego! You have nothing to lose here, but a whole life to win.”
I’d love to hear what actions you take, and what makes your life worth living.. share your thoughts and experiences in the comment section below.
Read: Think big
WE ALWAYS HAVE A CHANCE TO MAKE OUR LIFE BEAUTIFUL
THANKS FOR STOPPING BY ;
YOU CAN DO BETTER.
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