We humans.. we always confuse what we want (desire)and what we really need (genuine human relations, peace of mind and meaning to life). We are always chasing after things we want like husband/boyfriend, car/bike, expensive watches/clothes, promotion at work and many similar stuff. . They may boost our happiness for a while but very soon, we get adapt to them., They are not capable of fulfilling us in long run. Sadly, it’s an endless loop that continue and continue, until we finally get emotionally depleted to point of feeling exhausted and numb.
This is human nature !
That’s how we are made and we have to deal with it in the best way possible. Most of the people around are restless- to go somewhere, to achieve something. They are damn sure that whatever they are having right now in life is not sufficient and with some amount of hard work and determination, they will acheive what they want, they will reach where ever they want to and they will be happily ever after. But that will not going to happen at all in this way.
OUR NEEDS FOR CONTROL, CONNECTION AND CONSISTENCY EXPRESS THEMSELVES IN MANY WAYS IN A WORLD THAT HAS BECOME LESS PHYSICALLY THREATENING BUT MORE COMPLEX AND CHALLENGING. .
BIG REASON BEHIND DISSATISFACTION ?
Dissatisfaction originates due to lack of gratitude.. while there is nothing wrong with getting inspired from people around you. But we humans yes… We tend to confuse inspiration with desire and that leads to them not being grateful enough with things that they have in their life. Which finally leads to Dissatisfaction. One should appreciate small things in life to be satisfied and happy. And that will also inspire you to grow as person in a healthy manner.
If you are not happy with what you are having then chances are that you will never be happy with what you will ever have .. people around are not dissatisfied because they don’t have enough, they are dissatisfied coz others have more.. that’s the whole problem with the mankind in real world .
Read: Heal and Move on !
No matter what it is we’ve all experienced Dissatisfaction at some point but it’s not the end of the world, In fact with a little help and action you can move from these negativity towards positivity in your life. Your destination and your journey both are different and for your journey you have to choose which would be the right way to reach your destination. Once you decide your own way to achieve your goals, then nothing will stop you. But you have to be more sorted and be grateful for what ever you have .. chasing your dreams in not a bad concept. . it’s a way for better tomorrow but first let yourself know what are your genuine needs for your life? Just calm yourself then figure out what are your needs at first place and then decide your path to achieve it. And I’m sure you will be able to focus on the way to satisfaction and happiness… a mind full of positive energy and happy soul.
Even creatures know what are their needs for basic survival and they do work or fight for their better tommorow whether it’s about food or shelter.. they are controlled and have consistency. we are more capable of doing anything in our lives but we humans are more mentally challenged , more dissatisfied in comparison to them. So with mind full of positivity and heart full of love and prayers let’s bring more satisfaction in our lives and happiness around us. Spread happiness and joy wherever you go!
Always try to do better.. because
Read: Clean-up your life
YOU CAN DO BETTER !
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