A few days ago me and my sister along with our mother were discussing about how Women’s Clothing Choices is A Constant Struggle in our society. Moreover middle aged women are still facing clothing issues in our families. Gradually in that conversation she started telling me about people who are supportive when it comes to breaking mental blocks. Why are so many clothes unwearable because of fabric or the prints? Why we always relate clothing choices with age? Although its a completely individual choices people make. Here I’m talking about how women clothing choices is a constant struggle. Let me know in the comments- How you relate?
Many of us stand in from of their closet and spend too much time thinking what to wear and what not? Thinking of people’s opinion – too revealing, too shady or simply is it “too much” ? No matter what you choose, someone will always have an opinion about it. If you are wearing something which is too revealing according to them they will relate your clothing choices with your self-respect. That’s too masculine or that’s too feminine – Don’t  you want to look pretty or you want to be taken seriously? In addition to that how you wear your makeup and your hair length will decide your character. Really?. Wearing more or less makeup will decide how professional you’re. Pathetic !
Showing too much cleavage is another aspect. If you show too much cleavage then it is sort of inviting somebody to take an advantage. And if it is not showing too much then you won’t be able to pass better and look nice in front of people. People also gives opinion on your body shape and how you should opt clothes according to body type. They say – you should wear clothes that do more to flatter your shape. And if you’re too skinny then you should wear some loose fitted clothes. You are too shallow if you care too much about your fashion and if you don’t care too much then you’re too shabby. If you’ve long hairs then you are old school and if you’ve short hair then you are a lesbian.
Concluding: Women’s Clothing Choices – A Constant Struggle
Whatever you wear, who so ever you are, some people will always give opinion whether you ask them anything or not. They enjoy saying or doing all this shit. They will always find something unattractive in you. All I want to say is that you wear what you like. If you want to keep your hair long then keep it long and if you like short hairs then go for shorter hair. I believe it’s completely an individual choice. No one else’s opinion is required in all these things. If you are someone as a middle aged women, no matter what your age is, If you like wearing free style shirts or denims then go for it. For true and inner happiness it is better to listen to your heart instead of people’s opinion.
A gentle reminder for you all – Live your life in your style. Always be grateful to those who helps you when you needed them the most. Try to take immense pleasure from simple things and connect with people deeply and keep your promises. These all will make you more attractive and be authentically you. You can do better !
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