When you get stuck in traffic how do you feel?
One day I got stuck in heavy traffic and it took me four hours to get back home. While I was in traffic sitting in my car, was observing people around me, their reactions on particular situation. A 32- year old man standing near me shouting in anger on person sitting on bike unnecessarily. Many people tried to pacify the man but he was not conscious of listening to anyone. When we are angry, our ability to think is reduced. and without this it is unable to win battle of life.
Isn’t it frustrating? Being stuck somewhere you never want, made us feel anger, depression and sadness. We all feel same. As a result, we always in eager to move. Movement brings some sort of satisfaction and a ray of hope in our mind. The people standing there were also trying to get out quickly if someone finds a way in a little. In addition to that, A man was in such a hurry that he broke his leg!
Hurrying is mostly a loss. They say that the act of hurrying is done by the devils. It is said here that if you do any work, you should do a little bit of thinking.
Whether it is our personal life, relationships, business, career or say traffic none of us want to feel stuck in one place. Regardless, of any field in our lives. We all want to make progress and achieve success. To achieve something you wish for in your live require three things to keep in mind.
Firstly, stop thinking what others will think, what others will say?
You will also think what people will think so what will people think ? You do what you want. Listen to the advice given by others but do think twice before working on that given advice. Don’t forget your voice. Do not lose your inner voice in that noise.
They say, people will say something, they are accustomed to doing so. Be careful in listening to them, time may fly away. People will say something. So listen to the advice given by the one who failed and those who have succeeded as well. Use your own discretion following of advice. Don’t be afraid of making mistakes. How we will learn and gain experience if we don’t make mistakes? Right! When we lose we learn and when we win we can teach.
Secondly, stop saying that your stars are bad! If you’re saying so. I know we do have bad time but that doesn’t mean that bad time will stay forever, even bad time has bad time one day and it will pass away. We should keep working for our dreams even if it is your bad time, so that you will be ready when your good time arrive. So please don’t wait for your stars to change. Keep working hard, focusing on small wins and doing things rightly.
Hard-work is an investment and when your time will change. Your stars changes and you’ll be prepared, future ready. Ready to reap the harvest of success. They say don’t just go by the lines on your palm, those who don’t have palms have also crafted their success.
Take this idea of perfect life or that your life can be perfect, out of your mind. Everyone wants an ideal life, a perfect life wherein everything is good and everybody is happy. Take this superstitious thought out of your mind. Life is a mystery . . . Hard to understand.
Some people stay away from their dreams to be there with dear ones yet others stay away from their dear ones to fulfill their dreams.
Ask yourself, will it ever happen that all our dreams and aspirations get fulfilled ? What we want and what we wish requires different 👉Managing Mindset. Our life may indeed be full of wounds, let time be the ointment. 👉Heal and Move on !
We have to lose our life from death one day but let’s first learn to win our game of life. Win the battle of life.
We all fight two kinds of battles in our lives. First internally and second externally. Internally with our own mind and body, on the other hand externally with the people around and surrounding areas. External battle is mostly with the world – the enemy around us. The key I found to win the battle of life is to trust in God and let your persistence and patience take in charge. It may take time to defeat the battle but as long as you don’t give up, you will finally gain victory.
” The toughest battle you’ll ever fight in your life is the battle within yourself.” – Anonymous
What is self discovery ?
Everything we categorise or think of loss can be converted into win. Within each day, each moment of life, each challenge and mistake there’s something to be won. The magic of life is about self discovery. It’s completely our job to recognise the opportunity and to find out the wins for personal growth and to move forward wiser, self aware and prepared for the next battle in life.
summing up, go thru once:
- Hold on to what you know is good for you.
- Swim against the flow (sometimes)
- Don’t allow doubt to stay in your mind for longer time.
- Battles of life cannot be won by lies. Stay with truth
- Change your pattern, don’t follow the same.
- We must make choices either to retreat or resist.
- Remember, God gifts each of us with certain talents, abilities and callings.
- We are here and are performing given tasks in our lives. He doesn’t give us all the same job but with different jobs that suit us and who he created us to be. YOU CAN DO BETTER.
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